tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post7584605716649898202..comments2023-11-02T06:42:58.850-07:00Comments on Are We There Yet?: New RealityOne Dayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18415121157634103240noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-14841469411294299612010-09-13T13:49:31.103-07:002010-09-13T13:49:31.103-07:00Here from L&F, I am so very sorry for your los...Here from L&F, I am so very sorry for your loss. When I read the snippet on L&F, I whispered What!?! I could feel my heart drop and I got chills. I can't imagine the pain you are going through, but know that I am keeping you in my thoughts.Miss Torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14141554321148142291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-54762147858880427732010-09-12T18:48:54.696-07:002010-09-12T18:48:54.696-07:00Oh my gosh I cannot even begin to imagine what you...Oh my gosh I cannot even begin to imagine what you have been through. I took a bit of a hiatus from blogging, and I am sorry I wasn't around to offer you my love and support as you went through this nightmare.<br /><br />Thinking of you, I am just beyond sorry. I hope the conversation with your doctor helped, even just a little.<br /><br />All my love xxxxSuzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10979257233557088253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-18551928868330994432010-09-12T18:03:10.768-07:002010-09-12T18:03:10.768-07:00I had a possible ectopic a few years ago and a lot...I had a possible ectopic a few years ago and a lot of the feelings you describe bring back so many memories. My beta was low, it went up, it went down, I bled, it went back up. Nothing was ever found on an ultrasound, so to this day, I don't know where it was. I still felt like I had killed the baby, even though logically I know there wasn't a chance. I didn't have to go through the horrible experience you had to with the ultrasound and seeing that things had grown and a yolk sac, I can only imagine how much more horrifying that makes the situation. You are not alone. This whole situation sucks and I wish you peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-20667180582498182942010-09-12T13:49:57.248-07:002010-09-12T13:49:57.248-07:00It sounds like you are dealing with this in such a...It sounds like you are dealing with this in such a wonderful way...I think you're very strong. I'm glad the doctor was able to give you some peace of mind.Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11851131029178140842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-46515198390437111182010-09-11T19:26:15.898-07:002010-09-11T19:26:15.898-07:00Well you are a stronger woman than I. I completely...Well you are a stronger woman than I. I completely understand your need to move on. You can't change it. You can't dwell. You can only move forward. Start again when you have healed. My husband and I grew closer with our 2 losses and while I had support from family and friends around, it was his touch and his kind words that gave me peace. I hope it is the same for you and I hope this bumpy road ends soon for you both. You are in my thoughts and my heart.Rottenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00849287149207368977noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-24155600891811040662010-09-11T18:36:10.012-07:002010-09-11T18:36:10.012-07:00I have mentioned you to my husband, he continually...I have mentioned you to my husband, he continually asks about you. We are both just worried about you and your husband and also are amazed at your strength. I think for sanity reasons you have to believe your doctor, it will help you move on. We have not been in your exact situation, but in a way we know the grief you are going through. I delivered stillborn twin boys. Time does make it easier, doesn't take it away. I know it helped me when people somewhat understood the pain. I found your blog through LFCA and can't help but follow your story, your life and wish you the best.jeannahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17206219261467132784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-8676164823568374082010-09-11T16:08:49.247-07:002010-09-11T16:08:49.247-07:00I know this is all so hard to understand and I thi...I know this is all so hard to understand and I think you are so strong and dealing with it so well. We're here with you through all of it.Rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05382638658909144208noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-81362244019406632842010-09-11T14:23:56.524-07:002010-09-11T14:23:56.524-07:00Cytotec is not a fun drug, but for us (I was 7.5 w...Cytotec is not a fun drug, but for us (I was 7.5 weeks with no heart beat) it worked. It feels strange to say this, but I hope it works for you, too. I'd hate for you to have to endure a D&C on top of everything else.<br /><br />What an incredibly challenging appointment that had to have been. My heart just hurts for you. I am glad, though, that you have some answers. It is ugly and unfair and just plain shitty, but what he had to say does make sense. And, he confirmed that you didn't do anything wrong even if your heart tells you otherwise.<br /><br />I continue to send love your way...Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01471803757485977959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-83942780332475583322010-09-11T14:11:59.797-07:002010-09-11T14:11:59.797-07:00sorry, I signed in with my new blog details, so ju...sorry, I signed in with my new blog details, so just in case you wonder who I (amanda claire) am, it's Amanda from Me and You at 22 xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-20503124176872817252010-09-11T14:10:15.243-07:002010-09-11T14:10:15.243-07:00You have been in my heart and thoughts since I fir...You have been in my heart and thoughts since I first heard about all of this and I am glad that you have found a place of (I want to say peace but I'm not sure it's the right word) acceptance of all that has happened. You've been through something incredibly painful, difficult and confusing and to see you looking at it like this so soon is incredible... you are so much stronger than you may ever believe! My thoughts and love continue to be with you xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-73581913149925913112010-09-11T13:19:01.942-07:002010-09-11T13:19:01.942-07:00What a roller coaster ride.
You are amazing, you...What a roller coaster ride. <br />You are amazing, you are talking sense and what he said makes sense about not seeing the heartbeat when you would have been 6 weeks along. <br />I really hope you get off this ride soon.<br />xNichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16275332224849930573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1371634004403238318.post-86179441236684130162010-09-11T13:17:32.739-07:002010-09-11T13:17:32.739-07:00I am sending love your way...
You are not crazy...<i>I am sending love your way...</i> <br /><br />You are <i>not</i> crazy, wrong, or stupid. You are an amazingly strong woman who is coping with an unbelievably difficult situation with immense grace. I am sending positive energy your way (to you and to your husband)!<br /><br />Jeanne<br />xoxoJeannehttp://chronichealing.com/noreply@blogger.com