Saturday, June 30, 2012

Eight Months!

Ok, several days late this time luckies, but you know what's been going on around here- a whole lot of crazy! At least I'm getting it up in the month of June.

First, I have to say this...please, please, please remember to slow down from time to time and maybe hold up on the growing, just for a little while.  You both have truly taken off, in your own ways, in the development and growth this month.  It's truly amazing to watch you each learning and becoming your own little people.  Your personalities are shining through in a beautiful way more and more, and I'm loving exploring all of the nuances of my two wonderful children.  You both have very distinct and different characteristics and you are sure to show them off at every chance.  I'm having an absolute blast watching you grow, little ones.  I just beg not to grow too fast! I'm already afraid to blink!




Gracie, my little love bug. You're like a little kid nowadays. It's, it's really just... mind blowing.  All of a sudden you've just taken off and decided to take this world by storm, to show us what you're made of.  And Miss,  you're made of pure gold.

This month, well actually today, you started to crawl! We've been watching ever so closely the past couple of weeks as you began finding your balance and getting up onto your knees.  Then the rocking started and the reaching...and of course then came the frustration.  You knew how close you were and you were ready to get there! Today, you took your first crawling "steps", one hand in front of the other and the knees crawling right behind! You mastered the hands first but couldn't figure out the legs part until today.  You always ended up flat on your tummy everytime you reached too far and your legs didn't follow.  You started crawling a bit backwards before forward, but today you took a couple of good "steps" on your hands and knees right toward me.  I snatched you right up and cheered so loud! What a big day, little lady!



You've been having a lot of fun with this exploration of just what you can do this month, including a new sophistication in how you play with toys.  You figured out that certain "buttons" make the toys do fun things and you will reach for those buttons to get your fun result.  You also started banging toys together to listen to their sound and you have a renewed enjoyment of rattles for the added bonus of the rattling that comes when they are banged together!



You are in a bit of a slapping phase and you love to smack everything with your hands- I think you like the noise that makes, too.  You're obsessed with the cat, so we have to watch out that you don't smack her as well!



One of my favorite developments this month has been your voice.   Your brother was taking the cake as our little talker but this month you've decided to try to catch up on that front.  You started truly babbling with all kinds of bahbahbah's and dadada's! You started doing the dadada's around your daddy, so I've decided that you know he's "Daddy" now and you're trying to tell us, even though that might not actually be true. I'll also confess that you've been crying "mom mom mom" since you were a tiny baby- it was just the sound you made when you got really sad and wanted attention. For no logical reason, I've now decided that it's not just the sound you make, but rather, you're actually calling for me specifically.  Just humor your mother and go with it, ok?



You've decided to add some physical growth onto your list of "leaps and bounds" this month and have now gotten too tall for many of your 6 month clothes! You're wearing 9 month pajamas to bed most nights and I finally picked up some 9 month outfits for you to wear out and about as well.  We keep you in your diaper most of the time that we're at home though, it's just too hot for anything else around here (plus you're so cute in your diaper)! You still wear your little size 2 diapers, though- you don't seem to be close to growing out of those. You've got a tiny little waist! You're eating really well right now, but that comes and goes. You've been pretty steadily eating about 5 ounces for most bottles (5 per day) but sometimes you'll chug down 7 ounces and sometimes only 3.  You have baby food at least once per day and I'm trying to make it consistently three times now- although that has yet to actually work out.  You've had and enjoyed rice cereal, carrots, squash, sweet potatoes, mixed veggies, bananas, pears, peaches, apples, chicken and brown rice pureed.  You do not enjoy green beans, sweet peas, mashed avocadoes, or prunes pureed.  You had your first finger food yesterday in the form of cut up banana- you dug it! Of course, it's not easy to pick up that sticky, slimey banana so it wasn't the most successful thing we've ever tried, but you got a couple pieces in your mouth and I think you even swallowed one! It was definitely a fun time, though.


Unfortunately you've been on antibiotics for the last ten days for an ear infection.  You started coughing about two and a half weeks ago and the congestion ended up draining into your ears and causing the infection.  You weren't ecstatic about it, but you've really handled it like a champ! A couple of rough nights when you couldn't breathe through your nose and therefore could not for the life of you figure out how to keep your binky in your mouth, but otherwise you've been pretty happy throughout the whole thing. Of course, that doesn't mean that you're not a bit fussy from time to time, just because that's who you are.  You like attention and when Daddy or I are around and not giving it to you, you make sure to let us know.  You've recently started showing us more of that diva side of your personality- if you want something, you want it right.now.  And if I don't give it to you, or if you can't have it, you're going to let me know how wrong that is.  Case in point- Mommy's cell phone or the remote control.  If it were up to you, you'd swallow both of those things whole.  You don't love it that I've begun telling you no here and there when you're going after something that's not good or smacking me in the face.  I think we're going to be a bit in trouble with you when you gain more independence my little princess.

Did you say no, Mom? You must be mistaken.


We started you at a new daycare this past month and it seems to be going pretty well.  You like the teachers and don't seem to have much trouble there. You sleep like a champ there as well, so that's always wonderful! I make sure to wave at you every day before I leave and when I pick you up (and pretty much all the time) and you've started to do a similar motion with your hand from time to time when you're just playing or taking a bottle.  I think you're going to pick up that waving thing pretty soon, as well!

Finally, this month brought our first Father's Day and such a wonderful time! I don't know that anything could live up to my amazing first Mother's Day, but we sure tried to make it great for Daddy.  You made him acute handprint card that said "I love you THIS much" and we got him lots of workout equipment because you obviously know what makes Daddy excited! We all went out to brunch and then had fun shopping together. It turned out to be a great day because you both did so well, thanks for that by the way!

My little Grace Face, my lady bug boo bear, I'm completely enamored by you.  I'm so proud of you and so excited about everything that lies before you, what an exciting journey.  You light me up in such a wonderful way and I can't get enough of your cute wrinkled nose smiles and your giggly belly laughs.  You're growing so fast and learning new things every day and it's actually a little bitter sweet.  I'll never forget my tiny little lady, so helpless and needy.  But I'm so lucky to have this beautiful and strong girl growing up before my eyes.  I love you baby girl!


Caleb, my little dude! You've had an exciting month of firsts, little man, even if some of those firsts aren't your favorite things. Mostly you've started to pick up some motor skills and it's amazing to watch you learn and figure things out all the time.  You're very calculated and you seem to really study things to figure them out- I love that about you!

This month, you started clapping! Daddy and I have been clapping with you for months- it was the first thing to get you to smile!  Whenever you do something new, I'm always clapping and cheering for you, so I wasn't too surprised when you picked it up- it seems you're always observing, even when I don't know it.  You clap when you're playing and you clap when you're hungry...and you clap sometimes when you're tired and can't figure out what you want.  The clapping even comes out sometimes when you're crying, but you usually realize pretty quickly that you aren't in "fun time" and promptly stop! :)  You'll start putting your hands together and when I say "clap clap clap" you get the biggest grin on your face, it's so cute!



You also figured out how to play with toys in a new way and it appears you taught your sister how to maneuver the cool buttons on some of your animated toys.  You figured out how to get them to play music and you do it over and over, you're truly a smart little man! You've also figured out your own way to jump in your jumperoo.  You still haven't quite gotten the whole bending of the knees thing down, so instead of jumping with your leg muscles, you jump with your arms! You throw your arms up and down to get your whole body to move, it cracks me up! You're starting to move your legs a bit more, but you still think it's much better to just go with the arms.



My little talker, you still love to hear all of the different pitches that your voice can make.  You're not really babbling with repeated sounds yet, you still prefer to just oooooh and waaaah with different tones and pitches.  It's like you're singing and I love it! You might sing before you talk.

It's been a little bit tough this month as your sister has gotten more and more mobile and you're still figuring out sitting up.  We've known for a while that she's ahead in the motor skills and you might be a bit behind. We also know that boys tend to develop later than girls and big boys come in last in that facet.  You're pretty much giant, weighing in around 23lbs, so it's not easy for you to balance all of that weight with your little muscles.  You're so much taller than Grace as well- it's crazy to see the difference in your sizes! You wouldn't even know you were siblings, let alone twins.  You don't look like you're the same age at all!

With that said, you're getting so close to sitting up on your own.  You can do it for a couple of seconds sometimes, if you feel like it, but you tend to fall backward most of the time. You've recently figured out how to push yourself back up into sitting position if you fall forward, so you're right around the corner from this new skill!  We're on the lookout- if you aren't sitting up unassisted by 9 months we'll probably start some physical therapy to help you out.  We want to make sure that you learn all of the skills you need, little man!



One cool skill you have picked up this month is standing up!  For a while we were struggling to get you to put much weight on your legs but now you absolutely love to stand up. But what's even better is that you pull yourself up into a standing position with just a little help from Mommy or Daddy now!  If we grab your hands and put your feet on our laps, you'll pull up on our hands and push your legs from bent to straight to stand up! I love seeing that you're building muscle in your legs- you'll be sitting, playing, and crawling around in NO time!


Now, we can't have a monthly post without your health check-in, and unfortunately I can't say that you get a clean bill of health this month either.  You were on antibiotics for your last upper respiratory infection and ear infection until just a week and a half ago, but you started with a new cough a few days ago and ended up with a bad fever today.  You actually started spasming and doing some random twitching this afternoon and scared the daylights out of me so after talking to your doctor we took you to the ER to get you checked out.  Luckily all was fine and we were sent home, but with no explanation for the spasms. So we have to keep a close eye on it, and your high fever, to make sure there's nothing serious going on.  I think you'll be fine and I'm glad that all of the tests came back negative and the spasms stopped today!

The not so fun first for the month was your first day in a helmet.  We had to get you a helmet because your beautiful little head is beautifully crooked.  Whether it was your position in my belly (your head jammed up into my rib cage) or your difficulty with tummy time or your tendency to turn your head one way while you slept, you ended up with quite the crooked little head.  So we bit the bullet and got you a helmet and you hate that thing.  You didn't seem to mind it much at first but then realized that it wasn't your favorite and it wasn't going away, so you didn't really dig that discovery.  We've had some rough nights with that thing and unfortunately they have to make you a new one because it wasn't fitting correctly, so you have a week without it- which means when we put it back on you you're going to freak out.  At least we get a week of sleep!  I do have to say that I miss your head.  I go to kiss you while I'm holding you and I always get a face full of plastic, I hate that.  So know this, I hate the helmet almost as much as you do!  It looks so uncomfortable, I hate that for you bubs.




On a happier note, you're still our big eater and you seem to love all food.  When you're not sick or teething (you have FOUR teeth now, two on the bottom and just recently two on the top),  you'll finish most of your bottles, usually around 7 ounces 5 times per day, and then finish all of your baby food as well.  You're not getting as much baby food as I'd like, we're working on the schedule, but you've tried and loved rice cereal, green beans, sweet peas, squash, sweet potatoes, carrots, mixed veggies, prunes, apples, pears, peaches, and bananas.  You don't love mashed avocadoes or chicken with brown rice pureed (but, the only time we tried it you were sick, so we'll try again!).  With all of this eating you're still growing non-stop. We have you in mostly 12 month clothes but you fit well into 18 month stuff, too, so we put you in those from time to time. Goodness, you're a big boy! You're still in size 4 diapers- thank goodness! 



Your first Father's Day was such a fun one.  You did awesome all day and loved being out and about as a family. You slept really well most of the time and had fun playing with your toys while we ate. A couple days later you actually got your first try at a high chair in a restaurant and did awesome- and you also rocked out the grocery cart seat as well! Big exciting things happening every day around here. Of course, you had a hand in picking out the cool Father's Day gifts we got Daddy too because you want to be big and strong like him one day- so you made sure I got him some good workout stuff that you can share.  But bud, not anytime soon, ok?  You're still my little guy!



My handsome man, I am so madly in love with you buddy.  I'm having just an absolute blast watching you grow and figure out this world.  I love that you study things so intently and learn in your own time, I'm proud of that little man.  You're an incredibly gentle boy but you've got some fire in you as well.  You crack me up and you adore to smile- it's such a blessing to laugh with you and share your happiness with everyone you come in contact with!  I'm such a lucky mama, and everyone tells me how wonderful you are.  I love you, Bubba!

Luckies, my babies. You're getting so close to growing out of that baby phase and yet you're still so new.  This has been an indescribable journey, one that I am so proud and so lucky to share with you.  I can't wait for what's coming around the next corner and I will never forget the beautiful memories we've already made together.  I love you, my little ones!













Thursday, May 24, 2012

Seven Months!!!

A couple days late, my loves, because as you know- we're living in a war zone and the viral enemy is by far winning at this juncture.  Alas, I'm proud to say we got a photo shoot in at all this month!

Just like every month thus far in your lives, I sit here scratching my head, wondering how the calendar could be right.  You can't be seven months old already!  That's over the hump- we're downhill to the big "One" now and I can't wrap my mind around it.

But as I watch you both grow into the amazing little people that you are, I know that while it's going too fast, it's all too real.  Such a beautiful whirlwind!





Grace Face, my little Who!

Yes, I said it.  You, my dear, are our little Who...ya know, like from Whoville. You had all of those cute Who features as a newborn and I loved to trace the swoop of your nose with my finger as you sleepily passed the day in that newborn phase.  And then as you started to grow,  your little nose kept that swoop and I got to see your little Who personality start to shine as well.  Now, in your seventh month,  you're no less Who...and maybe even moreso than those early days!! And I couldn't love it more.

The best thing about this month has been your ever increasing smiles!  You wrinkle that brilliant little nose, glance in our directions, and shine the brightest little wrinkled smile there ever was.  You're incredibly active and oh-so-curious, so you seem to be always looking for the next thing to spark that smile.  I love it.




Your adorable hair has grown a bit longer this month, but still in every direction but down!  You look so cute with your spikey hair and your beautiful blue eyes!




This month you had your first solid foods!! It's been a lot more fun than I anticipated feeding both you and your brother.  While you have been a bit shy about trying most of the food, you've started to take to it a little more just recently and you seem to even like some of it!  So far you've had rice cereal, peas, green beans, sweet potatoes, and bananas!  Your favorite is by far the bananas...sweet tooth, much? The rest of it all started with more of a curious but disinterested sentiment on your behalf.  You're warming up to it, we'll see what happens next month! 




You're still eating predominantly formula, taking right now about six ounces four times per day and seven ounces twice per day. Usually you eat less than that, though.  You get rice cereal in the morning usually at daycare and we usually (when we have time) give you some pureed vegetables in the evening before bedtime. We'll be starting more fruits this month!  I'm not making your food, which I'm not too surprised about (I had hoped...but life is just way too busy right now), but you're getting mostly organic jar food.

You've been going through a growth spurt recently, but you haven't really grown much at all little lady! You're still a very petite little girl, weighing probably just over 16 pounds. You're wearing 6 month clothes and don't seem to be needing anything else anytime soon.  The funny thing about all of it is that your feet are as big as your brother's!!  I wonder if you're going to go through some sort of crazy growth spurt at some point and shock us all.  For now, I'm happy with my tiny little princess. 


A new favorite pass-time for you is sucking on your bottom lip.  You'll sit up (you're so good at sitting now!) and rock back and forth a bit like you're dancing, then start sucking on your lower lip to the same beat as you're rocking! It gets me every time!!!



We've had a great time exploring this month.  You want to get your hands on anything that I'll let close enough to your grip, like your spoon! You want to feed yourself most of the time, which means food ends up everywhere but your mouth. 


You really love the paper towel dispenser in the kitchen.  If I'm holding you as I walk anywhere near it, you reach out for it, demanding I take you closer. At which point, you proceed to try and rip all of the paper towels off and get the top silver piece in your mouth!


I don't think this is going to be a temporary thing for you, my curious little one.  I think you're going to be our explorer, always ready to get your hands on the next new thing! With that said,  you still have your shy streak, and you take a little while to warm up to most people before you've decided whether you'll keep your tears to yourself.  But once you've warmed up,  you're such a happy girl! And you love to play, especially in your jumper!  You've figured out how to really bounce in it and you go to town bouncing up and down to high, it's the greatest! You get really happy when you're bouncing. You are absolutely our mover and shaker, little miss.  You're actually a bit ahead of your developmental milestones when it comes to motor skills, although your brother seems to have more of the verbal tendencies at this point.

We haven't gone swimming this month at all, but we've had plenty of other adventures.  My favorite was my first Mother's Day!  You and your brother got me cards and a beautiful necklace, and Daddy let me know it was your idea to take me out to brunch.  I love showing you two off, and everyone just adores you. How could they not?



Gracie, I've had so much fun watching you grow this month.  While I was very sad to see you with your first cold and ear infection from daycare, you've been so happy through it all.  I can always count on a beautiful smile when I pick you up from daycare or anytime I come to grab you off of your playmat.  You love to be held and I absolutely love holding you.  I can't tell you how lucky I feel to have you, my love.  You're the best little girl out there, and I can't believe you're mine.  I love you with all of my heart!


Mr. Caleb, my big man!

Oh buddy, another rough month for the health side of things is in the books...but another amazing month full of smiles and lots of laughs came right along with it! How you manage to stay so happy through all of the junk you've been through is beyond me.  I'm so proud of you every single day!


You've had your tough days where I knew you had to be feeling just horrible. If I can't get a smile out of you in the morning,  I know you feel bad. You're always so smiley, especially in the mornings! Recently, anytime you see Daddy you're beyond thrilled about it and make sure he knows.  You even let out your one-syllable chuckle just when he looks at you.  But when he tickles you, you can't hold in that adorable belly laugh!!



As much as I hate to write it out, I want to remember how tough you are with all of the different bugs you've been dealing with!  Just after you turned six months old,  you started having some pretty bad diarrhea.  Your sister got it too, but she was throwing up and you never did.  Hers went away in about two days, so we figured the same with you.  Three weeks later, you were still having diarrhea.  You got a horrible diaper rash because you were just pooing all the time and sometimes at night when you wouldn't wake up. We tried everything and eventually had you on a four-cream regimen that included diaper changes every two hours at night and hourly during the day.  All of these diaper changes were with a spray bottle and air drying, so needless to say, Mommy got pooped and peed on quite a bit!  Then came the blood in your stool. This was so alarming to me so we called the doctor but they said if it isn't recurring, it's ok. Two days later you woke up with pink eye in both eyes and more blood in your stool.  I took you in and sure enough you also had double ear infections! I could not have felt more horrible for you.  You were in such a sad state, I've never seen you so worn out and down. We got you on antibiotics and were told to keep an eye on the blood.  A few days later I brought you back to the doctor because the blood was occurring more frequently and you were refusing your bottles. That was the first time they sent us to the hospital.  They were concerned about a problem with your intestines because of the prolonged diarrhea and the particularly alarming consistency of it.  You had to do x-rays and ultrasounds and way too much blood work.  I was there with you the whole time and you sat in my lap as they put in your IV and did the ultrasounds. You were so mad and I felt so helpless watching you scream. Luckily the IV perked you up a bit and all of the tests came back negative.  Unfortunately, a couple days later you still weren't eating and then you got a really bad cough that kept you up all night so it was back to the doctor.  They sent us back to the hospital, this time to be admitted overnight, because you were having trouble breathing and the doctor was concerned about dehydration again.

I spent the night with you in the hospital, rocking you and trying to make you feel better in any way I knew how.  They tried four times to get an IV into your tiny veins but couldn't do it and I asked them to stop.  You were miserable, and it had taken 30 minutes of you screaming non-stop as they continued to poke you and wiggle the IV line to try and get your vein.  I had gotten you to eat just before that so I asked to keep trying the bottle instead.  Thank goodness you started eating again, I couldn't see you go through that anymore.  The nurses were grateful as well, they were at a loss for what to do for you when the third nurse couldn't get the IV in as well.  You turned out to not need any breathing treatments other than some steroids as most of you congestion was up in your nose and throat and not in your chest.  After one night in the hospital they sent us home with instructions to continue the antibiotics for another week.  Turned out you had croup on top of everything else.  Poor, poor little man.


I tried to explain to all of the nurses just how happy you usually are, none of them had seen my bright eyed little bubba! About ten minutes before they discharged us, I was playing with you in the hospital crib and I got a great big smile out of you.  A nurse walked in just a couple minutes later and I made her stop to watch you and she was blown away by your handsome smile!  Your cheeks are the things of dreams, little man.  I just want to chew on them they're so chubby and cute!  Everyone commented on how big you were and a couple of the staff thought you were already over a year old! 



I have been in complete denial about how big you're getting. I'm still trying to fit you into 9 month size pajamas!  You're already starting to outgrow a few of the 12 month outfits that I finally bought for you, so I probably need to change out your pj's as well!  You're eating six ounces four times per day and eight ounces twice per day.    You LOVE solids and will gobble down your share and usually your sister's leftovers as well.  The only time you've struggled to eat is when you're really, really sick, otherwise you're my hungry little man.  You still have a little bit of that thrusting reflex I think, so a lot of the food ends up on your chin, but we get it in there eventually.



You still wake up at 4am for food, but recently you've been waking up a whole lot at night with how sick you've been. I don't feel comfortable letting you cry in your crib, so whoever is on baby duty for the night usually ends up taking you out into the living room and sleeping with you on the couch on and off until morning.  We've given you your binky back a lot recently with the hospital visits and the very sad little man moments.  It's been hard not just giving it back to you at night, but the couple of times that I have you just end up crying for it every thirty minutes or so, you can't seem to figure out how to keep it in your mouth or putting it back once it's fallen out. 

Developmentally you're pretty on track.  You're our talker where your sister is the mover.  You still haven't been able to sit up on your own besides a few seconds of tripod'ing here and there.  You're not really all about standing either, although I can get you to do it for a little while if you're in the mood. But oh how you love to roll over from your back to your tummy.  You've taken to sleeping on your side a lot now, but sometimes you'll sleep on your tummy. A lot of the time once you get there, you just get mad about it and want help rolling back to your back. I know you can do it, but I guess you choose not to! :)  You've also achieved one major milestone first, you got your first two teeth! They're fully in now and they're so cute. Your smile has taken on a whole new shine with those two bottom teeth sticking out.  But man, those things are sharp!


You absolutely love to babble! You have this high squeaky voice when you get excited and you make the cutest oooh aaah eeeeeh weeeeh aaaah sounds! I haven't heard you do many consonants other than the occasional W or B, but I love it all!



I'm so enamored by your sweet little personality and your happy go lucky ways, little man.  I have so much fun watching you grow and change, getting more bubbly as the days pass.  I couldn't be more proud of you or feel more lucky to have you as my little boy.  I love you so very, very much!





Luckies, I want to freeze these beautiful moments with you!  I never want to see you sick, so as long as we're out of those dark days, I am loving every single minute of this time with you.  I hope you know how much you both mean to me and how incredibly in awe of you I am.  Thank you for making my life so bright.  You fill me with unbelievable amounts of joy, my little ones.  I love you both more than you'll ever know!